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Xav and Jasmine Handfield are creatives, educators, podcast hosts, and proud parents of a beautiful two-year-old daughter. Their story began in college but wasn’t finished there. A decade later, they reconnected through social media, proving that sometimes the right timing changes everything. So yes…check your DMs.

Together, they bring a refreshing, down-to-earth perspective on marriage, relationships, and community, inspiring others to pursue connection with authenticity, intentionality, and joy. Through honest conversations and shared experiences, they remind audiences that healthy relationships aren’t built on perfection but on purpose and the people we choose to grow with.

Xav is a nationally recognized motivational speaker, education consultant, and wellness advocate who equips individuals and organizations to lead and live well. Jasmine is a creative consultant and founder of Majestic Movements, where she empowers others through dance, intentional movement, and creative expression to experience confidence, freedom, and joy.

Whether on stage, behind the microphone, or in everyday life, Xav and Jasmine are passionate about helping people build stronger marriages, deeper relationships, and healthier communities.

Great relationships are like great meals…they don’t happen by accident. They require the right ingredients, preparation, patience, and care. This interactive four-part track explores the essential elements of building healthy, Christ-centered relationships from the inside out. Together, we’ll examine what each person brings into a relationship, the foundational qualities that foster lasting connection, the skills needed to grow together as partners, and practical ways to navigate conflict with grace. Whether you’re single, dating, engaged, or married, you’ll leave with practical tools and biblical principles to help cultivate stronger, healthier relationships in every season of life.

 

Breakout 1

Talk Title: What’s in Your Pantry? Knowing What You Bring to the Relationship

Before you can build a healthy relationship with someone else, you have to understand what you are bringing to the table. In this session, we’ll explore how our experiences, expectations, values, habits, and relationship patterns shape the way we connect with others. Participants will consider what needs to be kept, what needs to be healed, and what may need to be left behind to create healthier relationships.

Room: Spring Lake B
Day/Time: Sabbath, 9:00 AM

 

Breakout 2


Talk Title: The Right Ingredients: Building the Foundation for Healthy Relationships

Every great recipe starts with the right ingredients, and relationships are no different. In this session, we’ll unpack the essential ingredients of healthy relationships, including trust, communication, friendship, respect, shared values, boundaries, faith, and intentionality. We’ll also explore how to recognize when important ingredients are missing and why chemistry alone cannot sustain a healthy connection.

Room: Spring Lake B
Day/Time: Sabbath, 2:00 PM

 

Breakout 3


Talk Title: Can We Cook Together? Communication, Connection, and Partnership

Having great ingredients is one thing. Knowing how to put them together is another. In this session, we’ll talk about what it means to function as partners rather than simply two people in a relationship. From communication and expectations to emotional needs, responsibilities, and decision-making, participants will learn how healthy relationships require listening, flexibility, teamwork, and a willingness to grow together.

Room: Spring Lake B
Day/Time: Sabbath, 3:15 PM

Breakout 4


Talk Title: When the Kitchen Gets Hot: Navigating Conflict Without Losing Connection

Even the healthiest relationships will experience moments when the heat gets turned up. Conflict does not have to destroy connection when couples know how to handle it well. In this session, we’ll explore how to disagree without disrespecting one another, communicate through difficult moments, repair after hurt, extend grace, and recognize unhealthy conflict patterns. Participants will leave understanding how challenges can deepen intimacy when they are handled with patience, humility, forgiveness, and care.

Room: Spring Lake B
Day/Time: Sabbath, 4:30 PM