"You stiff-necked people! Your hearts and ears are still uncircumcised." (Acts 7:51)
Stephen stood before the Sanhedrin and preached the longest sermon in Acts. He walked through the entire history of Israel, pointing out every time God’s people rejected the people God sent to them. Joseph, sold by his brothers. Moses, rejected twice before being accepted. The prophets, killed. And then Jesus.
It wasn’t a gentle message. It wasn’t designed to land softly. Stephen wasn’t trying to win them over. He was telling the truth, fully and clearly, knowing what it would cost.
He was stoned to death for it.
Faithfulness sometimes consists of saying hard things clearly to people who don’t want to hear them. Not to make yourself feel righteous. But because the truth matters and because love sometimes requires saying what people have been avoiding.
Most of us soften the hard thing until it’s no longer hard. We give people the version of the truth that won’t cost us anything to say.
Stephen’s face looked like an angel’s before he died. He saw heaven open. He asked God not to hold it against them. The most costly conversations, when carried with that kind of love, can be the most faithful ones.
QUESTION TO CONSIDER
What truth have you been softening that might need to be spoken more clearly?